Most sex offenders "groom" their victims prior to any sexual abuse for a period of weeks, months or even years. After gaining trust in the parents, the offender offers to baby sit the child or provide fun activities. During this time, he/she proceeds to groom the child. The perpetrator is aware that the child must be controlled to the extent where he/she can sexually abuse the child without fear of disclosure to another adult. This manipulation may be obtained in many ways: favors, threats, guilt, shame, etc.

A mother revealed her husband played a tickling game with their three-year-old son. The rules of the game was to play with Daddy and have funthe son was instructed to tickle his fathers nipples while sitting in a straddled position over his fathers nude body from the waist up. The object of this game was, Make daddy laugh.?Of course, the father could withhold laughing until he experienced the sexual stimulation he desired. When the mother objected to this game, the father admonished her for being jealous of his time with their son.

Another mother was horrified when her three-year old daughter asked her to play the pee-pee?game. She asked her daughter to explain this game. Her daughter lay on her back on the floor; legs spread and said, Touch my pee-pee,?Mommy, that is what Daddy does.?/p>

Fathers often cuddle in bed with their daughters in a spoon position, arm across their mid-body with only underware or pajamas on. S

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