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everal clients have reported feeling their fathers penis against their legs or back, while not knowing what to doas they wanted their fathers affectionthey didnt like the feeling of his genitals against their body. This cuddling seems harmless. The women also reported sexual abuse occurred sometime later. Was the cuddling in bed a form of grooming or was the cuddling an ill advised way to show affection with the child that unwittingly led to subsequent sexual abuse? In either belief, the damage is done. In a study of twenty adult sex offenders conducted by Jon Cote, Steven Wolf and Tim Smith; two of the key questions asked were: 1. Was there something about the childs behavior which attracted you to the child??/p> ?The warm and friendly child or the vulnerable child. Friendly, showed me their panties.?/p> ?The way the child would look at me, trustingly.?/p> ?The child who was teasing me, smiling at me, asking me to do favors.?/p> ?Someone who had been a victim before [sexual abuse or spankings], quiet, withdrawn, compliant. Someone, who had not been, a victim would be more non-accepting of the sexual language or stepping over the boundaries of modesty. Quieter, easier to manipulate, less likely to object or put up a fightgoes along with things.?/p> 2. After you had identified a potential victim, what did you do to engage the child into sexual contact??The responses included: ?I didnt say anything. It was at night, and she was in bed asleep.?/p> 上一页 [1] [2] [3] [4] 下一页 |
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