?Talking, spending time with them, being around them at bedtime, being around them in my underwear, sitting down on the bed with them. Constantly evaluating the childs reaction?A lot of touching, hugging, kissing, snuggling.? [Desensitizing the child with appropriate behavior.]

?Playing, talking, giving special attention, trying to get the child to initiate contact with me?Get the child to feel safe to talk with me?From here I would initiate different kinds of contact, such as touching the childs back, head?Testing the child to see how much she would take before she would pull away.?/p>

?Isolate them from other people. Once alone, I would make a game of it (red light, green light with touching up their leg until they said stop). Making it fun.?/p>

?Most of the time I would start by giving them a rub down. When I got them aroused, I would take the chance and place my hand on their penis to masturbate them. If they would not object, I would take this to mean it was okay?I would isolate them. I might spend the night with them. Physical isolation, closeness, contact are more important than verbal seduction.

Many clients have reported their sexual abuse grooming started when they showered with a parentor the parent/caretaker washed the childs genital area with bare hands and soap long past the stage a child can attend to their own genital hygiene. While for some this activity was the extent of the covert sexual contact, but for

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